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Chelsey asks, Do you keep a neat and tidy home? If so, what do you do to keep on top of this? Schedules? Routines? If you have children at home, do they get involved?
I would have to say that I do not keep our house as neat and tidy as I would like it to be. There is order to a great extent, and our older children who still live at home have assigned areas which they keep moderately clean. However, I have become aware that I have not taught them to be thorough enough. Also, the youngest still needs direction in forming a regular routine for his duties. His older sister and I should not have to constantly remind him of them.
When the children were small, I made a chart out of two pieces of round cardboard. One was larger than the other, and I put them together with a paper fastener stuck through the middle, the larger one on the bottom. I then divided the overlapping larger piece into four sections and labeled them: hallway, living room, dining room, kitchen. The smaller disk was divided into the names of our four children. Each week, the disk would be turned clockwise so each child took turns picking up the different areas. I used clear tape to tape the larger disk to the refrigerator and left the smaller disk free so it could be turned.
There were rules, however, so that no one took advantage of the one picking up a certain area. Each was responsible for his/her coat and footwear. Also, if someone got out a big mess of tiny toys such as Legos, blocks, or a puzzle, he/she would be responsible to pick them up himself/herself. There was also a basket at the foot of the stairs for things which went upstairs. When it was time to go to bed, each child recovered his/her own things from the basket and took them up to be put away.
Looking back, however, I see that by this method I was teaching our children to only pick up their assigned area. They grew up being oblivious to personal responsibility because "it wasn't their job." Thankfully, I was able to make them aware of this fault before any of them left our home.
Ideally, we had three pick-up times:
- Once in the morning before school
- Just before Dad came home in the afternoon
- After devotions before going up to bed
One of my favorite poems goes something like this:
Babies Don’t Keep
by Ruth Hulburt Hamilton
Mother, O Mother, come shake out your cloth,
Empty the dustpan, poison the moth,
Hang out the washing, make up the bed,
Sew on a button and butter the bread.
Where is the mother whose house is so shocking?
She’s up in the nursery, blissfully rocking.
Oh, I’ve grown as shiftless as Little Boy Blue,
Lullabye, rockabye, lullabye loo.
Dishes are waiting and bills are past due
Pat-a-cake, darling, and peek, peekaboo
The shopping’s not done and there’s nothing for stew
And out in the yard there’s a hullabaloo
But I’m playing Kanga and this is my Roo
Look! Aren’t his eyes the most wonderful hue?
Lullabye, rockaby lullabye loo.
The cleaning and scrubbing can wait till tomorrow
But children grow up as I’ve learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down cobwebs; Dust go to sleep!
I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep.
If you are lacking in this area, why do you think that is?
Babies don't keep.